KegRun
01-13-2003, 03:31 PM
Well...I haven't said much of what has been going on recently in my life. And because I don't care what people think. And I post in here because in the general forum is just dumb.
But anyways. I've tried my damnedest to get her back. Her main excuse of why she can't get back with me is because she is scared that I will go back to be addicted to the computer and not spending time with her again. I spent as much time as possible with her before the 10th. On the 8th...I drove her up to the mountain (at night) and went a pretty far ways up. I then pulled over and put some cd in with a lot of love songs, got out, and then pulled out a foldable table, pulled out 2 long stick candles with candle holders and lit them. Placed 2 table mats with 2 cloth napkins with 2 napkin holders. Then I pulled out 2 plates and forks. I then brought out 2 wine glasses and a bucket of ice with champagne. Then I placed a vase of rose (pink since it's her favorite). I then pulled out 2 foldable chairs. I then brought out chinese (we love it). She was all about it too. She said it was so beautiful. But it was fkn freezing and shit and the wind was blowing...so we stayed there for a few minutes holding each other and tehn I took the stuff to my apartment and set it up there. Turned off the lights and lit a fire. And we ate and talked. But then she started talking about the bad again. So I just said fk it and went to the back of my apartment while she was in the bathroom and I just listened to a song that made me upet. I went back in and saw her on the couch and just walked up to her and hugged her. And she hugged me back and then I got on my knees and held her and then she started to rub my back. I then got on the the couch and she laid in my arm and we held hands. And then I took her home.
The next night was our last night together until she went to Georgia and maybe get married to this guy ( i say maybe becuase I could change her mind...but if I don't...then she will [AFTER FKN 2 MONTHS OF KNOWING HIM]).
So...what did my romantic in love ass do?? I rented a limo for 7 hours and made reservations with the number one romantic restaurant in Phoenix. I told her to dress nice the night before and she said she would. I rented a tuxedo (seems dorky...but I have always wanted to wear one with her...and if this was our last night..then so be it.) So I picked her up at 630 and my cheaffuer went up to her door and told her her limo was awaiting. She was shocked beyond belief. But she ddin't dress nice..she was just casual looking..but i didn't care. She was still packing and stuff and didn't think we were doing this. She thought maybe applebees and then rent a movie and then come home. SO anyways...we got in the limo and talked for like 2 hours..good..bad...and didn't go to the restaurant. I dropped her off and went in and we talked for another hour with her. And told her everything that I could...everything I could think of. And I proposed. And she said she couldn't after about 5 minutes of thinking. She then said..Matt...I need time to think about everything. I was like...but you are leaving tomorrow at 5 am to go to Georgia to see him and marry him. She then said..call me in an hour. So I got in the limo after a looooooooooooooooooooooooooooong hug. And after we both kissed each other...but not on the lips. I then drove around getting drunk and then I called her. She said she was still going...but she is still thinking. So I told her more stuff and then hung up. I then called 4 of my friends..picked them up..and drove around for 2 hours getting hammered!!! That part was great.
I then woke up at like 9 and had this HUGE sinking feeling in my stomach since I knew she was gone. And I haven't heard from her since Thursday..and today is Monday. She wont be back until like Saturday or Sunday.
I wish I could sleep forever. Because in my dreams we are together and happy. And then when I wake..it takes but just a split second to realize that she is gone...and with another man. She didn't even call on my Birthday. It really sucks right now for me. I'm so fkn lonely and EVERYTHING around me reminds me of her. EVERYTHING. It sucks walking up to my apartment knowing that it is half empty..half empty of stuff...and half empty of love. Until she gets back and I see a ring. I still like have miniscule amount of hope that she will come back. Maybe she just went to go see how he is NOT in the desert. Plus his work friends were with him when they were TDY and they are her friends also. So I know she also went to see them. It sucks being so fkn lonely and knowing that she isn't.
The future I wanted is probably ruined now. I couldn't wait to have kids with her and see our son up to bat swinging at the ball on the tee. And then running the bases. And then me and her cheering for him all the way. Who knows...maybe I woulda been a coach. I couldnt' wait to see our daughter in a pink tu-tu and pink balerina shoes..going to practice..and going to her shows. I couldn't wait. I was so excited. I was so happy.
And it's gone.
But anyways. I've tried my damnedest to get her back. Her main excuse of why she can't get back with me is because she is scared that I will go back to be addicted to the computer and not spending time with her again. I spent as much time as possible with her before the 10th. On the 8th...I drove her up to the mountain (at night) and went a pretty far ways up. I then pulled over and put some cd in with a lot of love songs, got out, and then pulled out a foldable table, pulled out 2 long stick candles with candle holders and lit them. Placed 2 table mats with 2 cloth napkins with 2 napkin holders. Then I pulled out 2 plates and forks. I then brought out 2 wine glasses and a bucket of ice with champagne. Then I placed a vase of rose (pink since it's her favorite). I then pulled out 2 foldable chairs. I then brought out chinese (we love it). She was all about it too. She said it was so beautiful. But it was fkn freezing and shit and the wind was blowing...so we stayed there for a few minutes holding each other and tehn I took the stuff to my apartment and set it up there. Turned off the lights and lit a fire. And we ate and talked. But then she started talking about the bad again. So I just said fk it and went to the back of my apartment while she was in the bathroom and I just listened to a song that made me upet. I went back in and saw her on the couch and just walked up to her and hugged her. And she hugged me back and then I got on my knees and held her and then she started to rub my back. I then got on the the couch and she laid in my arm and we held hands. And then I took her home.
The next night was our last night together until she went to Georgia and maybe get married to this guy ( i say maybe becuase I could change her mind...but if I don't...then she will [AFTER FKN 2 MONTHS OF KNOWING HIM]).
So...what did my romantic in love ass do?? I rented a limo for 7 hours and made reservations with the number one romantic restaurant in Phoenix. I told her to dress nice the night before and she said she would. I rented a tuxedo (seems dorky...but I have always wanted to wear one with her...and if this was our last night..then so be it.) So I picked her up at 630 and my cheaffuer went up to her door and told her her limo was awaiting. She was shocked beyond belief. But she ddin't dress nice..she was just casual looking..but i didn't care. She was still packing and stuff and didn't think we were doing this. She thought maybe applebees and then rent a movie and then come home. SO anyways...we got in the limo and talked for like 2 hours..good..bad...and didn't go to the restaurant. I dropped her off and went in and we talked for another hour with her. And told her everything that I could...everything I could think of. And I proposed. And she said she couldn't after about 5 minutes of thinking. She then said..Matt...I need time to think about everything. I was like...but you are leaving tomorrow at 5 am to go to Georgia to see him and marry him. She then said..call me in an hour. So I got in the limo after a looooooooooooooooooooooooooooong hug. And after we both kissed each other...but not on the lips. I then drove around getting drunk and then I called her. She said she was still going...but she is still thinking. So I told her more stuff and then hung up. I then called 4 of my friends..picked them up..and drove around for 2 hours getting hammered!!! That part was great.
I then woke up at like 9 and had this HUGE sinking feeling in my stomach since I knew she was gone. And I haven't heard from her since Thursday..and today is Monday. She wont be back until like Saturday or Sunday.
I wish I could sleep forever. Because in my dreams we are together and happy. And then when I wake..it takes but just a split second to realize that she is gone...and with another man. She didn't even call on my Birthday. It really sucks right now for me. I'm so fkn lonely and EVERYTHING around me reminds me of her. EVERYTHING. It sucks walking up to my apartment knowing that it is half empty..half empty of stuff...and half empty of love. Until she gets back and I see a ring. I still like have miniscule amount of hope that she will come back. Maybe she just went to go see how he is NOT in the desert. Plus his work friends were with him when they were TDY and they are her friends also. So I know she also went to see them. It sucks being so fkn lonely and knowing that she isn't.
The future I wanted is probably ruined now. I couldn't wait to have kids with her and see our son up to bat swinging at the ball on the tee. And then running the bases. And then me and her cheering for him all the way. Who knows...maybe I woulda been a coach. I couldnt' wait to see our daughter in a pink tu-tu and pink balerina shoes..going to practice..and going to her shows. I couldn't wait. I was so excited. I was so happy.
And it's gone.