Cleaning and coming across old memories...

[1$ikbITCH]

People too often let themselves be defined by who they are with. If you need someone else to make you feel whole, you're in for a lifetime of heartbreaks.

You need to look inside yourself for happiness. Otherwise, you are just using people to obtain a certain feeling. You can't rely on outside things to keep you happy. That leads some people to use drugs and alcohol to get that feeling, or gambling, or many other self destructive practices. Even if you never go down that path, you'll still always be depending on other people to make you happy.

Screw that.

Learn to be happy from within, and then whatever else happens in your life won't be quite so devastating. The term for this is "well adjusted".

I'm not all that well adjusted either, but I'm working on it